I think I see the problem.
Make sure you have the RAM in the correct slots, check your manual.
Now........ with one stick installed ......... go into your main boards BIOS and set the voltage for your RAM to 2.1 volts (mainboards default is 1.8 volts) then go set the rams timings (cas latencies) to 4-4-4-15 reboot, turn off the PC, toss the other stick in, and give it a shot, I bet it boots right up and passes memtest.