That is a great suggestion there FreightShaker
well going with the more is better 16>8. I wasn't aware how extensive new games used RAM. should i go with a different MB? i picked that one as it 4 slots and a max of 16 gigs of RAM. if im only going to put 8gb should i get a cheaper MB?
There not that extensive at all really. I can run several new games without a problem on my system. The 16GB mobo that you picked is just fine. As for games they are more CPU and GPU intensive more so then RAM today. I have 41 games installed some old like CS 1.6 but also I can play H.A.W.X,, Crysis, Crysis Warhead, Need for Speed: Shift, Assassins Creed, without lag, and the RAM will not go above 60% on my system.
Here is a brief run down of the system.
CPU: AMD Dual core 6000+
Mobo: Gigabyte GA-M57SLI-S4
RAM: CORSAIR 4GB (2 x 2GB) 240-Pin DDR2 SDRAM DDR2 800 (PC2 6400)
PSU: Thermaltake 750w 60Amp mod
Case: Stacker 830
HDDs 2X 1TB Seagate 7200.11 and 1X WD 500GB Carver
Sound: X-Fi Fatality
GPU: 9800GTX
So if I can run those games on this system without an issue then I am sure you can do it as well.