You could use an S-video connection if you want to make use of the cable you have. The downside of using an S-video cable is that the quality of the picture will be DVD equivalent. Even if your downloaded movies are HD, you will get SD / DVD quality picture on your television. Also, not all of the video cards do have S video output. Some cards come with S video adaptors, so you may want to check what direct connections and what accessories come with whatever video card you consider to purchase. You said you were not sure how S video would work with HDTVs. The fact is that MOST of the HDTVs do have S video input, but I would check instead of assuming when it comes down to buying one JUST IN CASE. BUT if you are gonna settle with SD / DVD quality picture for movies, the easiest way to do it would be burn DVDs and play them on a stand alone DVD player next to your television, lol, and that's why we mentioned HDMI for HD pictures.
When it comes to how to do the audio and remote, I am soo not experienced that maybe I should not say anything. But if I were in your position and had to come up with a way by myself, I would probably consider wifi speakers and remote. But then, if you got video using a 30' cable and audio via wifi, I am not sure how well the two would be synch'ed. That may or may not be a problem. Maybe you need a 30' audio cable as well and need to choose a TV with built-in speakers and PC speaker input on the back of your television.
By the way, how do you get audio rigth now? And do you have a remote? The chances are, if you want to keep your expenses low, you may be able to utilize what you have right now to get audio if you don't mind 2 channel stereo sound (instead of Dolby Digtal 5.1) Maybe this is just a matter of choosing an HDTV set that comes with video and audio inputs that you already have equipements and cables for.
Depending on how your costs add up, it may come out cheaper to buy a 300 dollar Dell computer and put it right next to your TV, lmao, if your current computer has to stay 30" away. Or get a Blu-ray writer for your computer plus a stand alone Blu-ray player.
I think SRJ can help you better if you know exactly what you want such as does the picture has to be HD? What type of sound do you want? And how much are you willing to spend on new equipements other than an HDTV (e.g. new speakers, new video card, wiring / remote) ?
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