marriage sucks...just have babies, pay the support, and move on.
I'm just kidding, if you understand what you want and if you don't feel the urge to get married then don't. there is no need to rush it even if you don't do it at all.
Most men like myself give in to the fear of being alone when their old and gray and it is nice to have that permanent attachment thing going on. Plus it is better to raise a family being married and all.
Of Course, it sucks when you are in your late twenties and early thirty's and you start to feel like you are missing out on life. But, you just have to make it new! Life doesn't end when one has kids and a wife it just changes. It is fun teaching a kid new things. The glow in their face is priceless.
It isn't for everyone and we see that in the divorce rates. Just know this. Most live in couples who live together for a few years and have few babies than decided to get married have a higher divorce rate then those who do not. Even if you don't get married a court will probably still hold view it as strong as being married. So, if that is a reason not to get married don't bother wasting your time find the right person and take the plunge.
Good luck haha you're going to need it
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Carl Sagan
